Death of Another Friendship

The thing to laugh at - about one year ago I cut off someone who is emotionally unstable and immature and moody out of my life.

Now I am dealing with a outburst of a controlling friend. And reading the descriptions, the other two friends are also controlling friends but more bearable than this one. This one is moody. Finally I cut her off too.

Does the person ignore, underplay or override your own experience or expressions of your own feelings? Controllers attempt to define your reality. If you say you're tired and the person says you're not, that's a good sign he or she is a controlling person.

From: http://www.wikihow.com/Recognize-a-Controlling-Person 

Perhaps it is a good idea to not be in contact with them after we go our separate ways. But for now, this one. At one point the thought to be the bigger man to go and ask what I have done to hurt her, but now I don't think it is worth it. She always makes me feel lousy around her. She always have to be the better, the best and in a subtle way, (and I am really not exaggerating here) silently holding her pride up high, parading about and no one can be better or more right than her. 

She was abandoned because of her attitude. She was left alone. I befriended her because I believe that no one should be alone. But she stomp on it and belittle me. There was no respect and no boundaries, always making me feel the lesser person, my principles less than what she believed in. Regret that I approached and befriended her? Well, I'll just say that heaven knows what's been done, leave her to her beliefs and principles. Don't come stomping on me. 

It was painful. Asked Ba to shorten the mourning period of this friendship. And it did!

Teehee :D


I'm glad He's here and He placed nice people, nice teachers around me. Told one nice teacher about it (the one I took her class) and she was nice. Encouraged me to stay focused, that I am doing well. :) 

Now to work!