My Views on Communication

I am sensitive to words I admit. Perhaps that's why I am a language person. There's the other side about language that is communication. If communication is not carried out properly and words are not used well, it brings forth a wrong meaning. It also depends on where and how the communication is carried out. Keys to good communication is timing, type of words, arrangement of words, usage of the correct words and the tone.

So I think that communicating electronically in typed words that appear on screens can be read wrongly because it is hard to determine to tone meant to be carried in through the words. In the end everyone just assumes and conflict and confusion happens.

Some people, don't know the timing of communication. Some don't know when to leave a conversation online to avoid further miscommunication. Some people, don't know how to use certain words, or don't know how to arrange words appropriately to bring the tone intended. So all of this creates confusion and then wrong assumptions which leads to miscommunication.

Some things are best left ignored. This is because sometimes an intention to put out the fire might wrongly aggravates the fire which causes more trouble and messiness. So in the end, some things are best left ignored and untouched. It will open up uncalled-for trouble.

And another thing, please don't ask a question if you are not interested to listen or care. I hate it when people ask a question like they care but when we start answering, they sort of turn off. It is insulting. Especially in text messages.

And I hate being forced to study all about communication in minute details which is so annoying and makes me start disliking studying. It is this lecturer who aren't interested in teaching it in the first place then he got a thick reference book with all the lots of minute details about communication and then now is making us all present each chapter so that he doesn't have to teach. All he does is sit there and shoot us with questions. Then he will make sure we cover all minute details which is the most annoying thing. And in the end we get work upon work and need to force ourselves to memorize so much details.

GAH. Okay venting done. Weeee~ Bath time.