Of Relationships pt.1

I can't help feeling heated up whenever I see this particular guy. Heated up in a bad way - get mad. Especially when he fools around with girls. Well, few months ago he dumped the best girl in the world and left her broken and now he's out there hunting and fooling around yet again. To think that the girl (my friend) made such efforts to learn to love him, be patient with him and look past his mistakes an flaws to get dumped just like that. And he just dump her like that. And it doesn't affect him at all as he goes to his brother brother friends and talk about girls and now out targeting this senior of mine. And I don't like it. If she is smart enough she wouldn't have accepted him. Well, I'm not in a position to say anything or force anything so I can only rant here and let them mess up their lives.

I see people who can be so desperate for love that they just accept whoever that comes their way. I see broken people who jump from one relationship to another just to end up getting hurt and also humiliating themselves, begging on their knees with baggy teared-out eyes asking to be accepted back in those relationships that are just to young and too naive.

Guys are made the knights of honor, with shiny armor and a beautiful sword and a commanding voice that fights, protects and rescue.

Girls are made beautiful, precious, worthy of pursuit and respect, gentle and nurturing.

None are made worthless, having to crawl on their knees to beg to be loved or wanted. And NONE are worthless enough to be disrespected and abused, manipulated to fulfill our selfish needs.

Romantic relationships can be fun and fulfilling. BUT it also comes with RESPONSIBILITIES to honor, love and respect the other.

There are several ways of being in a relationship:

Some enter relationships like a robber, going in, demanding things, take all things, break things and never give and then leaving the relationship with the other party broken and empty.

Some enter relationships like a beggar. They see themselves poor and unable to offer anything. They can only beg for love. These are broken and hurt people who are actually handicapped in their ability to love. The sad thing is if these people are not healed of their ability to love, they might be too blocked to be able to receive love and they will only jump from one relationship to another unable to love and unable to receive love thinking that others are unable to fulfill their needs.

To be continued