Friends.

When you explode and went on an irrational rampage to remove lots of people from your facebook, and then posting long statuses that are not pleasant and blasting people disregarding of people who really hurt you or not, it just shows your vulnerability and that you are hurting and am trying to build an iron wall around yourself to protect yourself from all hurt.

I know. Because I was once there. But you are surrounding yourself with the people that are seriously, not worth it. I am not sure to what degree they will put up with you or support you. If they do, then good, go ahead. But if they ditch you halfway, I am sorry I was not able to warn you because you closed yourself up.

But then again, based on your response, you seemed like you want friends who will stand by you no matter what. Friends that will put up with your stupidity. Friends that will stand by you and sulk with you and murmur with you and hate the people that you hate whether they are innocent or guilty. Friends who will make you happy by doing the things you do, comply with your demands and suck up whatever hell that you caused.

I acknowledge that you are hurting and I pick up that you are vulnerable despite the iron hard front that you put. I extend a hand of friendship to you. BUT I am sorry I am not going to be the friend that you expect to have because I have different values and principles.

A good friend will not:
1. lie to me to make me happy
2. tell me my weaknesses and my wrongs no matter how hurtful it is to tell me
3. demand things I cannot give
4. disrespect me nor humiliate me
5. put up with my stupidity
6. ditch me without giving me chances to change for the better
7. stick by me only when I am useful
8. judge me without understanding me
9. do things that will harm me
10. put me down
11. despitefully use me
12. tell me things I want to hear instead of things I need to hear
13. leave me in the dark when things are not going on well
14. keep to themselves things I did that hurt them

The list goes on and on and I thought by putting up a list of don'ts' instead of do, it would be shorter but I guess I am wrong. But to shorten and summarize it all, a good friend will do things that will edify me, think the best of me, appreciate me and love me and not otherwise.

Be my friend or not, it is your choosing. I am always here.